Noooooo...I never think about life before kids...the nights out with the girls, buying cute clothes, taking trips, getting haircuts and facials, exercising because I always had time to...
Nope, I like wearing pants from 5 years ago which are sometimes (ok always) covered in dog hair...I also like never having time to pee...I really love that pile of laundry that magically replensihes itself...and I am really really in love with my split ends (nothing screams "mommy" like frowsy hair).
My dh husband actually said to me the other day that I don't have a hobby because "you're not interested in anything." OMG, really?!!! Since he is really a great guy, I let it slide...but what that said to me is either 1) I am the greatest actress in the world and my whole family thinks I live to make them homemade bolognese (I do) or 2) I have completely given up (I will never)
Get yourself some "me" time Summa! I did. I got a part-time job which includes the occasional evening away...On those nights I put the John Frieda on my split ends, unpack my newest jeans, and grab a glass of pinot with my girlfriends. Yay!
Oh, and it got progressively easier as my daughter got older....On the days when I just really feel miserable, I think about the fact that I will have SOME family in my old age, and I will probably be driving them crazy ; ) Karma!!!