F.L.
Hello M. S,
I know that you are feeling very protective of your child as you should. I would however like to offer this: If the store was as crowed as you say and you did have a double stroller, why was your child not in the stroller? I work in the public and I see everyday that people allow their children to have free reign. Yes a 19 month old will play and touch everything, and that is why they should be restrained to not do that. It is irritating and frustrating to you and those around you. The other mother is already dealing with her own child and then has to now deal with yours. It is your child, and she has not signed on to be a teacher or child care provider and should not be forced to have to tolerate the rudeness of your child. You would have done her and yourself a favor by putting your child in the stroller. You would have also taught your child that there is a time, place and way to act every where and when we are in crowded stores we do not run around and touch everything. I am not saying she was right to touch your child, and you may have seen what you wanted to see. She may not have truly pushed your child and only placed a hand on him to halt him. I have had to do that many times in public and can see how that can be seen as a push by a frustrated and overwhelmed mother, but I also have to protect my children and my space from being over ran by an out of control child.