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try serving him hot dogs and beans for dinner every night for a week, when he asks you what's going on, tell him you are just getting ready for those budget cuts that he is not worried about! or take your paycheck now and put it in a seperate savings account and tell him that you are preparing for when you are out of work, see how it is without that extra income, let him figure out how it's going to work! You know my husband used to be the biggest penny pincher, sometimes he down right embarrassed me, once I started working and contributing to the bills and took over paying them on time, he started not worrying... he leaves lights on all over the house now! I think that both spouses need to be involved with the budget so that you both "get it"! we also did the 13 week Dave Ramsey course just coming out of losing a buisness and filing bankcruptcy on that buisness. good luck, at least you are only looking at a few months of lost wages. hopefully if you are doing Dave ramsey you have your 3-6 mths put away.