T.K.
Remind me....what do you need him for again?
I think my tolerance level for bs must be little or nothing. If you pay the bills and he doesn't pull his own weight around the house, he has lost all right to an opinion. His actions aren't out of love. They are out of self loathing. I would explain it exactly as you have to us. --- Hey buddy, you have some work to do. 1) show me you intend to be my partner in this business of marriage 2) you need to apologize to baby girl and stop riding her all the time.