L.J.
Hi J.,
My mother went through the same thing! She was the breadwinner of the family and she has 3 children to care for. (excluding me) She'd leave for work at 7 am and wouldn't come home until almost 9pm. My dad would be at the house all day not doing anything. My little brother and sister would come home and would be watching TV all day no lunch, no dinner, no homework, no clean dishes, no clean house, nothing. My mom would get home and would have to do everything my dad could've done. My dad would yell at my mom for being a bad mother for not being home to fix dinner, and giving baths etc; My mom ended up leaving my father, bought her a house. My father realized what he was messing up and went to counseling and slowly came back into her life and is sharing in all parenting and housework responsiblities! Good luck!