L.R.
Sounds pretty normal to me. At about 9 1/2 mo. my daughter decided she wanted to feed herself... but it took us a week to catch on we just thought she was refusing to eat... then she ate pretty good for a month then her appitite dwindled... she is 11/1/2 mo now and eats half my plate all of a sudden... I think they just go in phases like that. He'll eat if he is hungry. Don't push him. Continue to offer a selection of food choices... at least 3... and you might even try including them from what you are eating as well. My daughter doesn't eat what we aren't eating. His appitite will improve. Here pretty soon he'll start getting the bulk of his calories from food rather than breat milk anyway so you should expect to see a decline in feeding... just not a stop all together.