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What? not go through the backpack and find out if there is homework due the next day. Don't you check the pocket of thing as they go into the wash? Not pay attention and knowing what they are doing and where they are going. Just believe everything she said without question. Are kidding me? Are serious? Kid whose parents know what going on are less likely to get into trouble, do drug,steal etc. Trust is something that is earned not blindling given especially to a 6 yr old. You don't blindly give you kid freedom that wasn't earned, they need boundaries. She needs to know you are in charge, that you make the rules and follow through with the displine when she breaks the rules. This sound like she is trying to get your attention for awhile. Example: If you have a teenage or (bigger kid) getting good grades, doing what thery are suppose to and be where they are suppose to, then fine they earned it. But, if they are not doing what they are suppose to, not where they are suppose to be, hanging out with the wrong friends the you do what Dr. Phil calls "Commando Parenting". (You can Commando Parent a 6 yr old). Read Dr Phil, go to his web site (google it). If she is stealing $40.00 now at 6, you wont be able to control her at 12. Sorry to sound harsh with you, but you need to parent. Parenting is more than feeding and clothing little bodies (and giving them eveything they want), its also raising them to be responsible adults that know right from wrong.