D.B.
Hi,
I am a daycare provider, and the bottom line is that you have to go with your gut. Shop around! There are good and bad. The resourse and referral agencies list any provider with a license, and believe when I say "It does not take much to get one. However, there are many providers who go over and above the call of duty to make their daycares the best that they can be in every way.
There was a comment in one response about just dropping in and visiting. I personally do not allow anybody to just drop in to my daycare for security reasons, unless their child is here. This is a strange world that we live in. The children that I care for are not mine. and they need to be protected. I do not allow strangers in my home during my business hours. The first appointment is when no children are present. This way, I am able to interview the parents and the children. If the initial interview goes well, they are given a certain day with morning, and afternoon hours to drop in. I do not allow drop in visits during nap time, because nap time is sacred.
The reason I pick a certain day, and certain hours is so I can prepare the children for a visiter, and not because I am hiding something. The children have a right to know what to expect. Having a visitor throws their daily routine off and it is the only way for them to tell time.
The two major areas that you should focus on are health and safety, and relationship. Toys and activities don't mean a thing, if the provider is cold. Listen for happy kids, and the way the provider responds to them. A lot of it is common sense.
Some will depend on your budget. How much can you afford. A good daycare is not cheap.
Do you want a daycare that is highly academic or one that offers learning through play. Some highly academic ones sit children of all ages in chairs for a lengthy amount of time to do various academic activities. There are also those, like me, who offer learning through play. There are many that offer nothing but TV and Juck food. Which one do you want?
There are some that care for children 6weeks to 13 Years. Many do drop off and pick up froms school and may want to strap your little on in a carseat for the ride. Is this OK with you?
The car thing is one thing, but the influence of some of the older kids may not be good. Small children need to be protected. They will be influenced soon enough by others when they school.
You could interview parents at the door during drop-off or pick-up, but if the kids are still there, chances are,
the parents are happy having their kids there. Pick-up and drop-off times are important times for all concerned. It is a time for important message exchanges, so if you do decide to do this, you may want to do it out by the curb to avoid confusion.
You could call licensing to verify the status of the daycare license, and find out about any complaints. You could also ask if the provider is accredited. The NAFCC website lists accredited providers.
Ask about a food program, daily routine, handwashing, gloves,and daycare insurance among other things.
I could go on and on, but please GO WITH YOUR GUT. You will know when you walk into the daycare of your dreams, and don't stop looking until you do.
I hope that these ideas help you.
D.