F.M.
hey, im right there with you! im also 20 and have a 13 month old. before i got preggo i was a size two and had a firm, flat perfect tummy. Although i have lost all plus more of my baby weight i still have that extra skin. im back to a size 2. :] i work out and try to eat right. It stresses me out all the time. I was told that since i had a c-section it would be harder for me to get my stomach totally flat like i want it and time. lots of it. I also have stretchmarks bc she was huge for me and im only 5 foot. :[ so my skins really stretch. Im gonna give it more time and just keep doing what im doing and then after my 2nd kiddo im getting a tummy tuck. ive already decided. so just workout, eat right and if all else fails tummy tuck is an option.
good luck and if you find something else that works please let me know!
F.