How to Help, Guide, Support a Sister in Need?

Baby sit for her, listen to her vent, help her with dinner/chores, help her financially, pray for her husband to feel contentment and satisfaction in his jobs. Since he starts and quits so often, he might be the type that enjoys variety versus the same job over and over. In that case, he could do contracting instead where it would not be considered hire and fire. If her husband is an engineer, quite likely he is not the social type and even though it might seem he cannot do a good job as care giver, I believe he will do a good job HIS way if placed in a position to do so. If she is so concerned, then put the 2 yr old in daycare. The other two are old enough to stay with their dad.

Maybe some medication for ADD!

I say, she married him for better and worst. My brother is an engineer too and not working, because of the economy is in the toilet. If people aren't building, these engineers are jobless. My husband is too was a carpenter, but it not his fault neither. I hope for the better and there was better and worst. Making your sister's husband feel bad isn't the right solution. Maybe the poor guy has ADD as an adult, which my husband has too. If your sister wants to leave him because of his job situation, that's a poor excuse to end the relationship. If he is a bad husband like abusing her or cheating then you have a case.

Support comes in all facets. One major support is spiritual-pray for the family. Perhaps her husband may need to work contractual, assignments may offer him the variety he needs. Check out some of the major engineering firms for contractual positions. Also he may need to start his own business. Here is one good for health and accumulating wealth.

www.ardysslife.com/LLJBCreativesolution

Overall be sure your support is not judgement but true concern for well being.

Blessings to you and your family.
L.

My brother's wife can't hold a job consistently. She recently confided in me she is bi-polar. It explains quite a few things since I've known her. I would recommend having her husband seek medical advice to ensure both his physical health and mental health are in order.

Best wishes.