Good Morning J., I haven't read what other Mama's having written but what grabbed My Gut was that the Jerk Yelled at your daughter. No matter how much he swept you off your feet, THAT is never a Given. Good Riddance! You didn't say or I missed it how old your daughter was. But hopefully she is old enough and would understand that someone yelling at her that IS NOT a parent isn't someone you really want in your life. It could of gotten alot worse if You had married him.
For your sake and your daughters sake take things a lot slower. Little hearts do mend in time.
You could always tell her, when she brings him up that you really do not want to talk about him anymore, he just wasn't right for our family.
Good luck to you J., I sincerely hope things go smoothly from here on out.
God Bless
K. Nana of 5