C.B.
I second the coconut oil suggestion. Aquaphor, Vaseline, etc. would not taste good if it got in her mouth.
My friend's nephew's hand was raw when he was teething. Friend said she was going to tell his mom to get Vaseline. I suggested she get coconut oil and she said within a couple days his hand was so much better. She also said she never thought about him getting Vaseline in his mouth if she used that and felt the coconut oil would be better.