How Often Does Your Husband Kiss You?

Updated on February 22, 2013
R.C. asks from Grand Haven, MI
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Not just a peck on the lips... I just feel i always have to ask for a kiss. Is this normal?

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S.G.

answers from Grand Forks on

Serious kissing is when there is sex involved. The rest of the time it is a peck goodbye or hello etc. We've been together 25 years.

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S.T.

answers from Washington DC on

i guess we're somewhere inbetween. i get a kiss when he leaves in the morning, when he comes home in the afternoon, and before he goes to bed. sometimes at other times too. they're real kisses, ie not perfunctory, but they're not deep tongue-y passionate ones either. those are pretty much reserved for times of delicious scrumpage.
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B..

answers from Dallas on

I'm not sure why you would delete the parts about his internet history being deleted, and him looking for his ex on facebook.

This is NOT about kissing, but trust. He doesn't seem trustworthy. I don't know why you'd ask what is wrong with YOU, since he is the one with shady behavior. If you can't talk to him about this, you should consider marriage counseling.

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☆.A.

answers from Pittsburgh on

Personally, if I had to "ask" for a kiss, I wouldn't want it...

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C.O.

answers from Washington DC on

Every day.

No, I don't have to ask for a kiss. No, it's not just a peck on the lips.

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J.N.

answers from Denver on

Is your question about how often husbands kiss or trusting your spouse?? My husband is not big on kissing, but I trust him 100 percent, and he shows his love in other ways. In other words, the two don't necessarily correlate. Good luck! Sounds like he needs to do some maturing.

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L.U.

answers from Seattle on

Hmmm.... I get a peck goodbye when he leaves.
We aren't slobbering all over each other day and night.
The "good" kissing happens when we are intimate.

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R.R.

answers from Dallas on

my husband and I kiss very often, just like Manda. We are extremely affectionate too. Married almost 14 years.

Different people show affection in different ways. Just because he doesn't kiss you without prompting doesn't mean he doesn't love you.

To answer your question, yes it is normal, for both of you. You both show love in different manners.

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E.M.

answers from Phoenix on

As my husband is hacking and coughing on the couch, I couldn't help but think "blech, not at all until that clears up, buddy!"

When he isn't germ-ridden, then lots of pecks, probably some decent making out every other day or so, at least :)

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A.M.

answers from Kansas City on

If I want a kiss (even a peck) and there is no sex in sight...then I have to ask for it. He's just not affectionate that way. He does show me he loves me in many other ways. While I am affectionate...he is not so I don't tend to push my needs on him too much and when I do he goes along with it. Sort of a compromise.

This morning I asked for a peck and a hug...I got both...my hug was a long one. I just needed his security today! he understood.

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R.J.

answers from Seattle on

Serious snogging?

TheEx... Only during / or leading up to sex.
But that was still daily (barring illness, etc.).
For 9 years.

Men (and women) enjoy different things.
Lots of guys are into snogging (cheat or faithful)
Lots of guys are not into snogging. (Cheat or faithful)

There are different 'barometers' in every relationship.
Sometimes snogging is one ,
Sometimes it isn't
Sometimes sex is kn
Sometimes it isn't
Sometimes (dinner, work hours, hygiene, clothes, spending habits, etc etc etc etc) is one, sometimes it isn't.

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M.P.

answers from Minneapolis on

I only kiss my husband when he has NOT been chewing, drinking, and has brushed his teeth very well. Then we smooch away for no reasons at all.. generally he gets really liberal when he wants some lovin.

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S.B.

answers from Kansas City on

I don't like to kiss but my husband does. So most of our kissing happens during sex or a peck here or there.

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A.G.

answers from Dallas on

We're more like Manda. Some couples are just more affectionate. You need to do what feels right to both of you. We've been married 19 years next month.

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K.B.

answers from Chicago on

Always goodnite and always before he leaves in the morning...like a ritual. We sneak kisses where we can...sometimes a peck..other times a little more sensual. Your husband might just have trouble showing his affections for you. Not all men are able to do so. Have you asked him about this?

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T.H.

answers from Dallas on

It may be normal for your husband. If you want a kiss, just go for it.

We kiss often daily, every day. My DH is very affectionate and I love it! But that wasn't the case in my first marriage. He kissed me at bedtime or during sex only.

V.S.

answers from Reading on

As often as I make him...

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K.M.

answers from Detroit on

Mine only will when we fool around. Other wise there pecks!

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