M.F.
Sounds like you have a good thing going there, and it's wonderful that you're conscious of your child's nutrition.
Here's a good website about kids nutrition that also has a kids food guide pyramid
http://www.keepkidshealthy.com/nutrition/food_guide_pyram...
She should probably be transitioning to table food now that she's one. I believe that a portion size for a toddler is just a couple tablespoons. Maybe 1/4 to 1/2 of a piece of fruit, 2 or 3 broccoli florets, a slice of cheese and a slice, or even 1/2 slice of lunch meat (we get the Hormel all natural kind that doesn't have nitrates and nitrites in it).
You might cut her milk servings down to 4 or 5 ounces. My daughter had a tendency to fill her tummy on milk, then not eat her food. When I cut back on how much milk I gave her, she suddenly had a better appetite!