Hi M. D,
It sounds like your dad is the "owner" of the policy. If he is paying for it, he owns it. Unfortunately, at your age you didn't question what you were signing. If you really wanted to know, would it be in your best interest to just ask him? Unfortunately we have absolutely no control over what our parents request of us, especially since we think they have our best interest at heart. Pray for him, but I was drawn to your response because you parallel lives with my daughter who also has a NAVY huz-bend...she is in the process of divorcing him too, they have a beautiful son together, he has cheated on her through out their marriage, she is NOW ready to move on...this is her 2nd child, she will be 23 next month, her 1st child is not her husbands, but he accepted her, or so we thought...I think you have a lot in common with her, and if you are open for discussion, I can e-mail you her e-mail address...this is a small world, & you think you are sometimes in the world ALONE, but people are right next door going thru the same/similar things, I wish you well, take care, give your son a kiss...I have 2 beautiful grandkids Jaylen & Kahlil, they mean the WORLD TO ME!!!! God Bless & Keep You!
Sincerely,
B. C