I am married with 2 daughters from a previous relationship. My daughters are 3 and 9 months. I always told my husband that I would never told him no if he wanted to have a baby, since he raises and loves my children like his own, I just felt like it was part of my wifely duty, even though I am in a place right now where I love just having two.
Well, my husband decided last month he wanted to start trying. I am the one who is worried about college and how busy I'll be and if I'll ever have my body back or a vacation without the kids. But, then I sit back and look at my life. My husband and I can pay all our bills and then some, we've got a little nest egg (Not much, but some.) So I stopped using the birth control patch and I told my husband that if he wants a baby, then we'll have a baby because ultimately, if it's in God's plan for me to have a baby -then who am I to say otherwise?
You know, someone on one of these posts said that we only get to borrow our children for a short time. They aren't really ours. Our lives are going to go by so fast, I want to enjoy every second of a midnight feeding with a newborn, or those baths in the sink, the camping and birthday parties and learning to ride a bike because before we know it,they'll be grown up.
YOu can ALWAYS find more reasons not to have children then you can why it's a good idea. I am a true believer that no one is every ready for children. We will never be prepared as much as we think, but as long as you love your babies and they are getting food and a warm bed.. That is what matters.