L.W.
I have 3 children... DD#1 and DD#2 are 3 years apart, and DD#2 and DS are 18 months apart. DH and I have always wanted two kids, about 2-3 years apart, so that hopefully the kids would grow up together as "friends". When DD#1 was around 1 YO, I didn't feel like I was ready, so we waited and planned for them to be 3 years apart... and DD#1 & #2 are almost 3 years to the day! LOL We weren't planning on DS, but he came and I wouldn't trade him in for the world!
I'm glad that DD#1 & #2 are 3 years apart. It made things easier because #1 could communicate to me verbally. Also, the diaper bag wasn't so full! I have a hard time sometimes with DD#2 and DS being 18 months apart in age, since #2 doesn't yet talk, and DS is still under 1 year. And with the diaper bag, I have to keep diapers for both kids and bottles and sippy cup and snacks. There's just A LOT to carry around sometimes!
Yeah, it was a change going from 1 child to 2 children... but I felt I was ready.
And you know... if what happened to me with DS happens to you (and I can guarantee I won't be using that BC pill again! LOL)... you will be amazed at what you can accomplish and take on because you have to!