None of my kids would sleep through getting their nails cut. I used the clippers with the big handles and a magnifying glass. I don't remember where we got them, but I think it was at Target in a baby care kit. I don't think we used anything else that came with them, but it was still worth the money. I never liked the magnifying glass, but the big handles did help. Practice helps, too, so you'll get there some day. I always cut my first son's fingers, but in 9 months, I've only cut my daughter's once. So I guess, by the time you have your third you'll be pretty good, too. :) Maybe that will happen someday, but I'm sure you're not ready to think about it at this time. So, I hope you get lots of good advice. Congratulations!