One of two things is happening...A. she's crazy, and she's actually stalking your husband, like for real. B. your husband is duping you. He is encouraging this somehow, perhaps he is in communication with her in a way that you are not aware. Don't be so quick to dismiss option B - some men can be real weasels about the ways they treat women. And the reason I even bring it up at all is becuase I wonder why the easy solution was not already addressed...delete the myspace account, and don't reopen one. That way, there is NO option for this woman to find your husband, and, of course, if she comes knocking, you have the option to call the police and issue a restraning order.