Hi S., I understand how you feel, I have a 3 year old boy and an 11 year old daughter, my 3 year old attended this school/daycare in Sugar Land and he also had separation anxiety, we also gave the benefit of the doubt for five months and it never got better,at the end we figured out it was his assigned teacher, she expected too much from 3 year olds, she told them to sit down be quiet and listen to her while they sat and learned, she did not teach through play, imagine telling 3 year olds to sit down and be quiet, he loved to visit the other classes and got along well with the other teachers, my daughter on the other hand loved her school was excited about the kids in her class and her teachers and learning, then we moved to Pearland my son's separation anxiety suddenly disappears, he runs to the classroom does'nt even kiss me good-bye, my daughters reaction to her new school, not so good. So the Moral to my story believe it or not "Kids can sense evil" as funny as that phrase is, with my experience I believe there's some truth to it. I watch my kids closely, I look at their eyes and see their reaction to people, my kids have a dull not interested look if they don't care to play with someone and an excited spark in their eyes if they feel comfortable with them. It is also important that you "click" with the caregiver. I am also a Christian and I prayed about my situation and for my children be protected and let the Holy Spirit guide me. With your permision I would like to pray for you and your family. The new daycare that our son attends have cameras in each class room including the cafeteria, It's Kids R Kids, we can get on-line to see him any time of day. I had a good feeling about this daycare, and my husband is blessed to sense "fake" people. I do believe prayers helped.
Have a Blessed Day!
K.