girl it sounds like you've had an exciting couple of months. well on the plus side at least hubby isn't home to lose sleep over little girl crying at night lol. since it's just the two of you (my husband worked nights when my son was small too), you can take advantage of that and get her sleeping at night on your own. you can totally do it! you don't have to just let her scream and scream, but you can start small by leaving her in her own bed and when she cries, go and comfort her, without getting her up. if you feel like you have to give in and get her up, just try to make it longer and longer before you do that, each time. maybe place her bed next to yours at first, then move it farther away. everyone has their own opinions about co-sleeping, but i have to be honest, mine is against it. i know lots of moms who have done it, and eventually, they all wish they had their bed back. so if that's what you want, i would absolutely encourage you to be strong now, because it'll be a lot easier than dealing with a screaming three-year old who will NOT stay where you put her! also, keep in mind, it's been a very disruptive time for your little girl, so it's not that she's refusing to sleep in her bed out of being spoiled, she's just had some huge upheavals. vacations at that age, and moving especially, can be more scary than exciting to little ones. it's confusing to them and they don't understand that everything is okay, when their whole little worlds are so different. (we moved two weeks ago and my two year old still asks to "go home") with kiddos, it's all about the routine. get her into the habit of sleeping in her own bed (maybe introduce a new lovey, if she likes blankets or stuffed animals, that "stays in this bed", to encourage her to sleep there) now and keep her in that habit as much as you can. you'll be so proud of her and yourself! good luck!