M.E.
Hi AG:
I don't fit your profile, but I have an idea for you. While I do enjoy meeting strangers and participating in www.meetup.com I have been successful in meeting new friends via the www.meetup.com tool without even attending events. Another Mom befriended me this way, so I have done it a few times myself. We were both part of the same meetup group. She was cruising through the member profiles, saw mine and searched me out. We ended up with playdates outside of the group with our sons and we actually really enjoy each others company too. Even our husbands have participated in a few outings with us. We have been friends for over 2 years now. Give it a try - you never know. Good luck!