Highland Park Moms

Just like anywhere, there are some moms you like and some you don't. I live in HP and have found WONDERFUL women to be with. The ones you are worried about won't be at the library, family network, or the park. They send their nannies to do that. So, you will meet some really nice people. Also, not ALL of HP is like that at all. There are plenty of "normal" areas. I live in a VERY down to earth area where the moms all "get it." The area you are worried about is more east. All in all, HP is a wonderful safe place to raise children. It has a wonderful park district and library with many great events for babies. It is also more diverse than most of the North Shore areas which also makes it a great place to raise children. I hope the myth does not stop you from moving here, I really like it.

I live in HP, and yes, it is hard to meet good people. I feel that is a huge problem, however; I also feel that you will find that anywhere. Good people are everywhere, as are nasty people. HP is a beautiful community with tons to offer, but if I'm being totally honest, it can be hard sometimes. I think if you are secure in yourself, and you have a loving relationship with your husband and family, you can survive anywhere. Good luck.

G.,
I live in Deerfield (next door to HP) and I hear what you are saying. Yeah, unfortunately you will run into some of those North SHore types who are incredibly rude and snotty but there are some very nice people up here. Since you have a baby, I would suggest that you go to the playgroups at the Family Network in Highland Park http://www.familynetworkcenter.org/ . I've met some very nice moms there. Since it's spring, you'll probably be meeting lots of moms at the local parks. Hope this helps.

I teach near HP, and many of my students come from HP. All of the moms I know from there are loving and supportive, and want nothing less than the best for their children. They work their tails off for them, come to their games and plays, and are totally supportive and wonderful. They like to socialize and have fun, go out in groups, make playdates, and get involved in their kids' lives. My impression of HP moms has been very positive. Good luck!