I was in almost the same situation you are in. In the third quarter of the year, my son's kindergarten teacher told me that he was not meeting any of the milestones required to move out of the grade. I was very upset. Why had it taken her so long to let me know there was a problem? (this is a question you should seriously consider) So I worked with him on his numbers and sight words and other things for several weeks. The teacher did tell me in that meeting that I should hold my son back. At that time I agreed with her. Then over spring break I spoke with a good friend of mine from church who also happens to work for the school district as a psycologist. I shared with her what my son's teacher had said and she was taken back. At one time she had been his church primary teacher, and had seen none of the problems described by the school teacher, and furthermore, the problems at school had not been brought to her attention as it should have been. I was left wondering what was going on. After I spoke with her, I was describing the problems to another friend of mine who's child had the teacher the year previous. She told me that her son had nothing but problems with this teacher as was the case with several other students in the class (my son's teacher had taught first grade until this year). This got me thinking and after discussing it with my mom, (who suggested that some teachers simply do not like some groups of kids ie, boys) I decided to spend some time in the classroom observing. To make a long story short, I found that my son did not mesh with the teaching style of the teacher, and that the students were expected to do work that they simply could not do because it was above thier level. I spoke to the school councelor at that point and shared my concerns with her. When I met with the teacher and councelor later, the teacher was falling all over herself praising my son in front of me, (but not to him) and said that he didnt need to be held back. I had no intentions of holding him back when I knew how much he knew because he would do the numbers and sight words ect at home. I really feel that this was a problem with the teacher. In the meeting with the councelor, I agreed to send him to summer school, and to re-evalutate at the beginning of next school year. He has been in summer school since the beginning of June and having a new teacher has made all the difference. He is doing wonderfully, and is reading now (which he wasnt doing before). There were a couple of outside factors that contributed to my decision not to hold him back. In my church, children are divided into sunday school classes by age, and the children are usually in the same grade as well. These classes at church do not change, and if a child goes to a different school or are in a different grade, I have found that it is hard on them as they get older. I also felt that my son should not be held back and have the stigma attached with that because of a personality conflict with the teacher. I hope that my situation has helped you in some way. Make the decision on your own, and dont simply follow what the teacher thinks. He is your child and you know him best. Good luck!