J.J.
Get your child involved with other kids from their class fast. I don't know how old he/she is but I was just thinking today that it's good that I took my little one to a classmates bday party. A lot of the kids weren't there but the ones that were really bonded and that's how it starts out. Get them involved in sports and play dates now before she gets too old for you to coordinate these things for her. The same kids will be getting together again this week as I am helping out after school and I am glad that they will form a friendship out of me participating and demonstrating to my child how to get involved. Maybe have a sleepover so she can get to know some kids. I see lots of naughty things when I am at school and I call the child on it if I see it. I also ask the children to apologize if they hurt each others feelings. When my child comes home and tells me so and so did this to me I let the teacher know(if it's bad) and I also talk to the child when I am in the classroom. Helping out lets you see what's going on and the classmates get to know you. My child's coat still gets tugged on or gets pushed when running but the kids know I will tell them what they did was not nice if I find out. I would go for lunch one day if your child is in grade 3 or under. Lots of parents go and eat with their child. If she won't feel embarrassed, do it. I would talk to the teacher also and let her know she is being bullied. Good luck.