K.P.
Hi A.,
My oldest is in the same place. She will be 3 in October and has shown all signs of readiness but refuses to poop on the potty. I have tried everything from immediate awards (m&m's) to a big reward (a baby doll bed she really wants) and she still will not go. She is in big girl undies all day except for her nap she wears pull ups. She will even go as far as to tell me she has to go potty and run to the bathroom and pee all by herself. She knows her body and understands the feelings. She will poop in her undies and want to be changed immediately... she does not like to walk around with poop in her underwear, she has that awareness but just won't go on the potty. She will say tomorrow mommy! I realized I need to listen to what she is saying... she will go when she is ready.... tomorrow. So be patient, this will come in time. I know it is stressful, being a teacher and going back to work next week, my goal was to have her trained by summers end... well we are half there! I hope that with the start of Pre school she will make the changes she needs to make herselfuse the potty. Good luck and don't let it stress you out.