C.O.
I don't know any lawyers in MD....only VA.
Check out Angieslist.org for lawyers.
Also have your friend call the court house and talk with the clerk of the court, while the clerk cannot offer legal advice, they can tell you whether or not the person can handle the charges personally.
One of the rules in our home? Don't do the crime if you can't do the time. She doesn't want it on her record? Maybe she shouldn't have stolen something.
So if your friend DID steal? Do you REALLY want to be associated with a person like that? And IF they did steal - what's going to stop them from stealing from you???
In no way would I handle this on my own. However, I wouldn't be in that situation....good luck!!