K.K.
L.,
I know what you are going through b/c my son started that at 10 months and still every once in a while at 2 has a major tantrum. We tried a couple of things..but redirecting sometimes worked. The other thing that worked (which we saw on Dr. Phil or something) was to tell you childs feelings to them. "I'm mad. I'm mad because I didn't get to (do whatever it was) at first he would look at us like we were crazy but he stopped-eventually when he was mad he would come to us to "voice his opinion". He was a late talker so it was helpful. I can't promise it will work..but its worth a try. Good luck.