D.M.
Hi S.,
I hear you on the fruit snacks--my son LOVES them, too! A great alternative that I found are Craisins (cherry or orange flavored dried cranberries). They are in the baking aisle and are actually really good. Also, have you tried flavored rice cakes? My son thinks it's popcorn. Speaking of--popcorn without the butter and salt is also healthy.
good luck