K.I.
J.,
If you buy a frozen turkey, know that it takes a very long time to thaw. You have a little hidden surprise when you buy a turkey--they put the neck, and "giblets" (liver and heart) INSIDE the turkey, sometimes wrapped in plastic or paper. You have to take these out before you bake the turkey. If you do not eat these, you can always put them into a separate small baking dish and cook them while the turkey bakes, then feed them to your dog or cat or neighborhood opossum.
Nowadays, turkeys all come with the little pop-up indicators that tell you when they are done, as well as written directions on the outside of the package. Don't bother putting stuffing into the bird to bake that way. Who started that anyway? It's gross. What, did they just not have another pan?
The internet has about a zillion free recipes if you are looking for something unique. Just put "free recipe sweet potatoes" into your favorite search engine and then pick one that sounds good.
Write a list of what you want to serve, who will be there, and with a plan you'll be fine. Also, if someone offers to bring something, graciously say YES. When they ask what, assign someone the salad, or rolls, or a pie, or a snack. That is one less thing you have to do, and bringing one thing to dinner is really no trouble--it is nice to be able to contribute.
Best wishes,
K.