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I wouldn't stress over this one, and I agree with you that the same routine can't be applied to all kids. My own two are totally different in their bedtime rituals but they've got the two same parents who instituted them! :) Just as long as she's not 10 years old still wanting to sleep with mommy, but at her age I wouldn't be that worried. She'll adjust when she's ready. Maybe just casual conversation with her during the daytime like, "So do you think you wanna try being a big girl tonight and sleep in your room by yourself like big girl's do?" Just reassure her that you're always close by if she needs you. And make sure she's got a night light if you don't already have one in there. But in the meantime I would cherish the extra cuddles if I were you! :)