J.O.
Hi M.!
Congrats on #3! Here's my story that may help you out a bit: I have 3 healthy happy kids- 1st was vaginal, 2nd was C-Section, 3rd was VBAC...similar path...!(VBAC was 9lbs 1oz and no problems at all!)
I left my practice in Mt. Lebanon after being so disappointed with the "hurry up" attitude and just feeling like a number kind of thing...upon advice from an old college friend in Boston who said, "Jen, you need to find some midwives if you want great care and a personal touch."
SO...I did..and we've never looked back. They are true gifts to women and families having babies. Their
philosophy is that a woman should be in control of her own health care, including her birth experience. They are incredibly intelligent and capable but they also LISTEN to you..work through the various options so that YOU get to decide what feels best for you...not based on all the fear but based on real facts(and trust me they know their stuff when it comes to giving birth!)
My first baby was actually born at the Birth Center and it was awesome!(no episiotomy..support during the entire process...unbelieveable!) My 2nd was breech(like you) and we tried a version but he wouldn't turn so we had the C-section(the midwife was there supporting us and taking pictures!) and the 3rd baby was a VBAC so I needed to be in the hospital(couldn't do the birth center) but other than having to be at the hospital...it proceeded naturally and without complication with the midwife. I was at AGH which was wonderful.
The MD's that the midwives work with (and the one who did my Csection) are FABULOUS as well. Dr. Thomas, who did my section was massaging me before the operation and helping me to relax...so you're in good hands no matter what you decide.
Birth is such a personal experience and we all have decide what's important for each of us. There's no 'right way' or 'wrong way'..it's what's best for each person.
For me, being listened to and partnered with by very capable and oh so knowledgeable practioners where I felt so comfortable to ask questions, to get concerns cleared up, to weigh the options and get all the facts to come to a decision that I felt great about...was priceless. My gratitude for them is endless.
You may wish to call them and go visit...it's worth sitting down with them and getting the true facts(my husband was very skeptical but he is as big a fan of them as me now!)
They are in the Strip District and I have known them to take women in the last trimester but don't know much about that policy..there website is www.midwifecenter.org and the phone is ###-###-####. Good luck with whatever you decide! Keep me posted! Feel free to email me and I'll give you my number if you want to talk! ____@____.com