No offense, but if you are really into nutrition and feeding healthy foods, I would suggest you avoid the jarred stuff - it almost always is overprocessed, and has added sugar and salt. Like everyone else said - she can eat anything you can, but cut up in little chuncks and steamed or baked, if it is not naturally soft enough - there are a few exceptions - peanuts and other nuts, strawberries, tomatos and citrus (SEE THE WEBSITE BELOW FOR OTHER IDEAS/GUIDELINES). These foods can either be allergens, or be too acidic for baby's system at first, my 2 year old still gets a diaper rash from too much tomato or citrus
You are a stay at home mom, as am I, and making fresh food for your baby, whether pureed in the blender, or cut up in smaller chunks is not hard, it just takes a little bit of extra work. You can make big batches on the weekend, or whenever you have someone to help you entertain her, or during her naps, and freeze them in ice cube trays, and then transfer to ziploc bags, or freeze individual portions in those ziploc or gladware bowls with the little lids, then thaw it eh fridge a day ahead, and reaheat carefully in a bottle warmer, or VERY carefully in the microwave. A little tip, we do buy the Mussleman's all natural applesauce, with no sugar added, I was making my own at first, but then figured out the cost of buying the apples and making it + my time, was more than buying the kind in the jar with no sugar. Applesauce is a staple we always have here, it is a huge lifesaver if you get somethingtoo hot in the microwave...just stir in a little applesauce, presto cooled off!
I did this for my daughter, and I think it made a HUGE difference in her eating, compared to other kids, she is not picky and eats a variety of foods, as a 2 year old, and always has...loves, fruits, veggie and meats, and breads - I think having the "real thing" from the beginning, not the tasteless jarred food, helped her be used to what we really eat as a family, and not just want bland processed, and unhealthy "kids foods".
Here is a GREAT SITE to get you started, and there are lots of book sout there about this, check out your local library, and if they don't have any, ask them whether they can interlibrary loan some books for you! http://www.wholesomebabyfood.com/
Good Luck - you can do this, this is what people did back whern we were a heahlthier country, before BIG FOOD COMPANIES/speed and convenience took over everything and we all got addicted to sugar.
Jessie