J.G.
It would be helpful if you told us how much is expensive. What I mean is say I know of private insurance that is $1,600 a month for a family, good coverage and believe it or not a good price for a PPO. I don't know if that is less expensive than what you said since you never told us how much it is.
Just so you know, without a high deductable you are talking well over a thousand a month for family coverage so maybe what your husband was offered wasn't so bad.