D.C.
I had a high risk pregnancy and delivered April 2008. I had gestational diabetes and saw Dr. Aaron Caughey and Dr. Susan Tran. They are both wonderful!
This is a teaching school, so you'll have to deal with more people - students & residents wanting to learn! My resident (they call him the "chief") tried to convince me to speed up my delivery so he could show his intern how to break my water before the end of his shift. But my nurse encouraged me to stand up to him if I was not comfortable following his advice - which I did. My water broke naturally shortly after his shift! And everyone on the next shift were very patient with me.
Overall, I had a great experience. The nurses & my primary docs made it so!!