J.N.
I had a several strokes. The last two appear to be in the same region of the brain as your friend. Generally young people have hemorrhagic strokes. Those tend to be more severe. Mine were all likely ischemic. I'm not sure because though I went to the hospital the first two times, they did not look at the arteries in my brain. The last time they did but not until the window had closed for treatment. They found a bifurcated clot, which means that I had a clot that split into two pieces. One affected my speech while the other affected the right side of my body, mostly my arm. My strokes occurred at 36, 40, and 45. At 45 they finally start to consider strokes. Before that they are incredibly rare.
The way I recovered was practically a miracle. At first I couldn't understand anyone much less talk. Quickly I regained speech but it was very slow and halting at first. I remember working so hard to find another route to the speech area of my brain. A couple of days later they sent a speech therapist who said that I only had trouble with my "s". I never went and my articulation is in the normal range. It takes me slightly longer to find the right word and my vocabulary isn't as rich. Luckily, before the stroke it was in the 99th percentile so it is noticeable by very few people.
Names have been much more challenging. I forget everyone's name now unless I knew them well before. Often I remember the name but then I think it's impossible because someone else has the same name. This happens even with people I have known for years and have shared vacations. If my husband says a name, I know who he is talking about 99% of the time but forget introductions. I'm sure they think I'm totally narcissistic.
I was able to keep working but it took a toll. I would grab something fast, eat on the drive home, and sleep the second I got home, usually 14 hours per day for almost a year. It was hard on my family. My boys felt abandoned.
I could read, but when I got exhausted, the letters just looked like random marks.
I think that sleep can help heal the brain. I read about cocooning, which is almost sensory deprivation at first. I found even television too taxing. I couldn't keep track of what was going on. If she is in therapy, I would imagine that is enough. They told me that if I didn't get it back in 6 months, I would never get it back. I think that is not true. The exhaustion lasted about a year. I saw progress for about two years. My most dramatic progress was in the first couple of hours though. This made it more difficult to diagnose because they kept assuming that I was having TIA's.
Strokes are rather funny. It is hard to tell how they will affect each person. I think that it is quite individual. On the last couple, the ones that affected my right arm and speech, everything was quite hilarious. They previous ones put me into a complete panic.
Thank you for being her friend and sticking with her through this tough time.
Thanks for the update! I also have a history of migraines and inflammation. They attribute my strokes to those factors rather than the typical ones.