My "aha" moment was only a few weeks ago when, after having my third child, that all kids are different. Even though this is something you would think I would have already figured out, it only now just hit me with my kids. My oldest does so well in school, and in general is so well behaved, and then my oldest son is so....boy! LOL He's rambunctious, and loud, and crazy, and is fixing to start preschool, and I had just automatically assumed that he would be just like our daughter. And then you have our youngest, a 6 mth old, who has all these different things going on with him and does all these different things that make me realize that I don't know it all like I thought.