K.C.
I was the same way with our son..and it was bad by the time he was 2 i could not even leave the room that he cried...here is what we did first off i dont know about u but we found a trusted close friend of ours to help out....if we had to go to the store like something that will only take an hour or so we would have come over and watch him...we made sure his favorits toys where out and had her play with him for awhile before we left..we would leave and yes they cry but keep walking going back only makes them want to cry more....and go do your shopping now im not going to say the first time gone she will be happy when u get back but u did it and just keep doing it and once u get the feeling she is getting comfortable with u leaving make it longer times like u and hubby go out to dinner (alone) and relax and enjoy...This took us at least 4 months but now hes five and if i leave he dont have a fit as long as he knows im coming back...but it is best to break it now before she gets older and its worse...But I know exalcy how u feel...Always thought the worst of things instead of the best but thats a parents job....goodluck and if there is anything else let me know my e mail is ____@____.com...K.