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been doing kids Halloween parties for years now! They're a BLAST!!
Current fav is to make "ghost balls". Take white (or light-colored) panty hose/knee hi's. Cut them into sections...about the length of your hand, tie off 1 end, & then fill the tube with flour. Tie off the closing end. These babies are fantastic for "ghost wars".....where the kids just throw them at each other as they're running around like maniacs. It is an absolute riot watching the kids! ***we also use these as "summer snowballs" for warm weather parties. ***we use them for kids parties AND adult parties!! & every time we use them, everybody wants more!!!!
Special note: this is VERY messy....we do it outside, at the very end of the party while waiting for parent pickup! & yes, the parents have joined in, too!
We go cheap on the whole party. I save my Halloween stash from year to year. All children's costumes are paired with adult masks, with glo-sticks in the eyes/nose/mouth! It's quite freaky. These creatures are placed inside & outside.
We also set up a Frankenstein on the pool table, complete with boxes set up as lab equipmt.
We put something scary in the bathtub/shower.
We leave the bedroom doors closed with glo-sticks on the thresholds. We close off the storage room & utility room in the basement (where the party is)....& glo-stick those doors, too.
We have quite a few party games which are requested every year. This includes truth or dare, with dare always being the choice!
We do Pictionary (homemade version....where I put the word on pieces of paper which are drawn from a skull. I always use Halloween or gross words.) & it's played boys vs. girls.
We play "Pass the Wienie"....boys vs. girls, of course. Raw hotdogs are held btwn the knees & passed thru the line.
We've had "R U Brave Enough to Taste This" contests. Some of the food items have been sardines, smoked oysters, feta cheese, frozen grapes - anything out of the ordinary. The kids are not told what it is....until the tasting is done. & they are given an option to guess the food item, with the most guesses winning the prize......a can of sardines.
I always set a smorgasboard for the kids. Each item is named something freaky.....& I always add really gross food....like the sardines, smoked oysters, etc. The smells alone are really effective!!
I know this sounds like a lot of $$ & work, but it's not. I am not a fan of big, expensive parties. I'm not a fan of elaborately-planned, oversized groups. We usually have <20 kids here, & we've never had to worry about fights/etc. Total cost usually runs <$50, that's food - prizes - & all!!! We do our own music, the kids enjoy doing SingStar/etc. The candy & sweets are sucked down, as is the cheese dip & chips! Oh, & you'll go thru twice the drinks you would normally expect.....teens drink a lot.
My older son is 23 & his friends still like to talk about those parties. My younger son is 14 & his friends are hounding us for details of the upcoming party....& making game requests, especially the "ghost balls". !!! I am happy!