Hi!! I specialize in womens hair replacement..
1st thyroid is usually the culprit after childbirth... have that checked asap.
Also anesthesia and certain meds can take up to a year to fully leave your sytem... sometime they can cause something called telogen effluvium in which the growth and rest cycles get screwed up.. this usually corrects itself within 6 onths to 1 year.
Hormone imbalance or lack of estrogen will also cause a problem with hairloss.. so be sure to have your estrogen levels checked as well.
Extreme dieting.. especiallty removing fat from your diet will definetly cause severe problem with growth and severe breakage... EFAs and omega 3 and 6 can be helpful with feeding the hair follicles with fatty acids and can also help your immune system.. biotin is also a helpful supplement for hair skin and nails.
Also Gelatin has never been scientifically shown to grow hair or nails so i wouldnt get my hopes up on that being effective.. at the very most , it MAY or may not make nails stronger thus allowing them to grow longer by preventing them from breaking off.
You normally shed 50-100 hairs per day.... when yours is shedding are you seeing the root /bulb on the ends? if not it could be a breakage issue possibly cause by lo or no fat diets.
Also , fertility meds can wreak havoc on the hair so thake that into consideration as well...
I have known some clients that swear by laser hair and scalp treatments too.. check out
http://www.bernsteinmedical.com/medical-treatments/lasert...
Also consider whether hairloss is something that runs in your family...
also a homeopathic dr maybe helpful too... they can analyze your hair and take other tests to determine which vitamoins an nutriets you might be defiecient in...
also seleniunm supplements may also be helpful, both for thyroid function and hairloss because studies have shown that many people with severre hairloss may have low selenium levels... selenium is found in mears , nuts, and other high protein foods...
also here is a list of drugs known to cause hairloss... see if you are currently taking any of these at http://www.regrowth.com/hairloss-articles/drug_induced_ha...
You might try mens rogaine to see if it produces any results, since its easy to get now... it might help if your issue is too much testosterone since rogaine attacks the dht allowing for regrowth... i have had female clients use it with some results in the hairline and temple areas.
Just to avert any problems do not consider womens hair replacement options that require braids, sewing or glues until you have fully given up on your hair.... once you start hair replcement services you are inkit for life... and even with the best care, they cause some damage.. so dont start that until you have tried everything else and feel like you have nothing to lose... that coming from someone who has dome womens hair replacement for 20 yrs... others in the field WILL not say that, they will tell you it will not damage your hair just to get your $$ so beware...
PS have the drs checked to be sure you have no auto immune issues? because thats a biggie too..