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go to yelp.com and find a salon near you that has gotten good reviews so that you know you can trust their work (tip: read hte reviews; a lot of people drop the name of the stylist who is good). also google face shape and haircuts. it sounds right now like you'd do well with layers (to lighten the weight). if you have money, you could also get magic straight which is about $200 and makes the hair stick straight for about 6 months (a lot of Asians get this done). Makes hair look polished and like you spent a lot of time on making it look nice.