R.S.
HI Carmela;
You are talking to the queen of frizz. Unless, I live in a cold climate, my hair is unruly. I always wear my hear in a ponytail. I try to use organic shampoos. They do not have the laurel sulfates that cause shampoos and conditioners to suds. They are also very drying. I also use some type of after conditioning leave in serum.
I have friends that use the expensive straiteners and they like them. I can't use chemicals like that yet, as I'm still breastfeeding but one day I will try them. They can be over $300.00 but they do work for some people. I haven't heard one person that has used the expensive ones say that doesn't.