I've spoken to 2 pediatrician in different practics with kids my kids age - they say get it - even if you can only get 1 dose. If my kids had asthma, I would have left it at that and done it.
My kids don't so, I was against is all the rush to market hype until last week. A family member in the DC area with an infant made some calls to government folks involved with some of this. They are all on board & vaccinating their kids. They say not as rushed to market as we have been led to believe - just another variation of flu vaccine that they deveop every year. But do whatever research you need to feel comfortable.
My children are school age (so the thermisal issue is really past) and I always get them the flu shot. I decided to get them vaccinated if you can find it. It took me an hour & half of calling to get an appointment last night... better than my girlfriend who pulled her kids out of school and waited 7 hours yesterday!
I am completely annoyed by parents who send their kids to school without waiting the 24 hours fever free/antibiotic rule. I felt like I needed to do this to protect my relatively healthy children. My child even missed sports practice when I had a conflict because the carpool offered contained family members under the weather and I didn't feel my child should be in that contained environment for 1/2 hour or less.
Also, you might want to avoid doctors offices right now if you can help it. Scary there are so many sick kids (call first if you go for a well visit to make sure you should come). I went to get my flu shot at an internist yesterday and it was uncomfortable there as well.
I've never been paranoid like this. My children mean everything to me which is why it was so hard, but I feel I am making the right decision for my family.
It is a personal decision and we need to respect whatever each person decides is right for them.
I can't reiterate enough that we should all make sure we take steps to keep ourselves and/or children out of public if we are experiencing flu like symptoms regardless of what we decide. Oh yeah... and wash your hands too --- drill this into the kids over & over again!
FACTS: Under age 10, you need 2 H1N1 doses 21 days apart. If you get the flu mist & the H1N1 mist than you also need to space out, but you can get one shot & one mist or both shots without spacing.