D.D.
Target, TJ Maxx or Marshalls all have a great section of marked down toys and interesting items. My daughter has been unable to attend a few parties due to conflicting schedules and I do not feel obliged to send a gift if she can not make it. My opinion is if she will not be there taking up a seat, eating food, etc. and I have RSVP'd in a timely fashion I am not obligated. I think with the tight money situations all over the world right now other parents would understand.