R.R.
I never heard that you aren't supposed to give them a bottle before bed... new one on me. But here's what you can do: make your bottle as usual but add some rice cereal to the bottle. it makes it thicker and stays with them longer. I had to do this with my son at about 3 months because no matter what he would not sleep throught the night otherwise. I am VERY against pacifiers but if you aren't then you might try that in the middle of the night instead of the bottle, but be careful that she doesn't become too attached to a specific style or brand because if they stop making them you may have trouble. Best of wishes and may the sandman grant you both a good night sleep.
R. R