H.Z.
Hi S.,
My husband I and are also going back and forth with this one. We have 3 healthy and amazing boys, but we too do not feel the family is complete. I am almost 38 which scares me a bit. Will I have the energy for 4, etc. It is not the "girl" factor since I am pretty convinced it would be a boy...and I am totally okay with that (would even make things easier!!) When my husband and I met I told him I always wanted 8...so 4 would be really awesome!! I hope you get some good responses...because I too am getting some whacked out responses from people.
Good luck!
H. Z. (SAHM 5, 4 and 19 month old boys)