K.N.
H.,
I feel for you. Congratulations, though, on your decision to get away from an uncaring man who's unworthy of being your husband. That's an extremely courageous decision you've made. Scary because now you're stepping into the world of the unknown, but courageous.
Is there a friend or family member you can move in with for a while -- either in the Orange County area or wherever you're from? If I were getting divorced, I'd stay with someone else for a while (my dad, actually), even if that meant moving back east (which is where my family's from). There's nothing better than family when you're going thru something like this, assuming you have that option. If not, then a good friend may also be willing to let you hang out there for a while.
There's a non-profit organization called Foundation Fighting Blindness, and it has a chapter in Orange County. The contact info is Wayne Heidle, and his email address is ____@____.com you email him and tell him about your circumstance, they might be able to help you with transportation and other things.
From here, that's the best I can do you you. May God bless you and your family. He knows your pain and suffering, and if you turn to Him, He'll be there for you.
K.