My daughter and I have done this several times with her now 2 yr old. Suggest you check with the airport and airline regarding a buggy or stroller. Usually you can wheel the child to the bording ramp and the buggy will go into the luggage compartment to be unloaded when you arrive at your destination. Secondly, take some toys that will entertain her (uietly) and ask the pediatrician and/or pharmacist about ear drops. Ear popping is worse for little ones than it is for the average adult. It also quiets them. Good luck and God bless your husband, child and you. My daughter is married to an Air Force Sgt and my grandson is a Marine, so we understand the need to travel. Happy Holidays!