M.M.
I am a provider of 19 years. I love getting candles and hand lotion. Even a plate of cookies or other treat to share with my family is nice. I also got some great foam hand soap form Bed Bath and Beyond, which I loved. All these thing were great to me becuase I wash my hand 100 times a day and lotion is a must and candles keep the diaper smell away. No huge amount is needed, just the thought IS what counts!
M.