R.J.
I try to give my baby healthy food as much as possible but sometimes it is hard.
What I do for breakfest is give her pancakes or french toast with nothing on it. Then I give her fruit. She doesn't like the texture of natural fruit but will still eat the Gerber 2nd foods. Her favorite's are peaches, pears and bannana's with mixed berries. Then about 10:00 AM I will give her yogurt. There is a brand called Yo Baby which has whole milk in it and I get the peaches and pear one and she loves it.
For lunch there are some graduate soups that have chicken with vegetables either rice or noodles and also ones with Turkey I give her those or some lunch meat turkey, chicken with cheese.
For dinner she gets either beef, turkey or chicken with vegetables. She is not one for spaghetti. Then again with the vegetables she doesn't really like but certain kinds so I give her the 2nd foods garden vegetables that has carrots, peas and spinach in it and also mixed vegetables that has carrots, peas and potatos. Graduates has some meals that are made up already that have pasta with chicken and real small carotts and a side of peas in it. She loves that one. Also there is one with mashed potatos, diced chicken and gravy with a side of peas and carrots.
I am not a true beliver in giving a child peanut butter sandwhiches or grilled cheese all the time. I know you want your baby to eat healthy and it's hard I am sure with a picky eater but here are a few things for you to try to see if it will help you out. Hopefully she will like some of them so you can start to feel better with what you are giving her. My friend has a daughter who is also picky and she gets so upset cause her daughter will only eat certain things.
I hope this helps you out some.
R.